Welcome to episode #143 of the Morning Upgrade Podcast. In this week’s episode I spoke with Bill Heinrich, a business coach for executives (including me!).
Top Talking Points
- Understanding that all of your power lives within you.
- The best tip for being present in the moment.
- Tips for rising above needless conflict and even all conflict.
Resources & Links
Connect With Bill at truelifepurposenow.com.
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Welcome to the Morning Upgrade podcast with Ryan Cote, where we feature casual conversations with entrepreneurs about personal development and growth.
Ryan
Hey, Bill, welcome to the Morning Upgrade podcast. How are you?
Bill
I’m great. Ryan, thank you for having me today.
Ryan
Yes, I’m very excited to talk to you. I know your mission on this planet is to help people find their purpose. And so not that we’ll spend the whole 1520 minutes on that topic. But that is a question that I will 100% be asking you about. But first, let’s kick us off by you tell my audience of morning upgraders who you are, and what you do for a living. And then something that you are grateful for right now.
Bill
My public persona is an executive business coach, it teaches executives how to live in extreme happiness without sacrificing any success. I’ve been doing this now for 15 years. And ultimately, that’s they’re living their life purpose. Something I’m grateful for is that I’m living my purpose. My purpose is to empower others, so they can go empower others. So I have had a tremendous effect on a lot of people. Very grateful for that.
Ryan
You said You’ve been doing this for 15 years. So 20 years ago, what were you doing?
Bill
I’ve always been in business myself, I’ve been in business for myself for over 50 years. But I was so miserable that I mean, I was my life was just out of control. I was so miserable that like 30 years ago, I literally walked away from my life, to find the source of my misery. And that’s what led me on this path into the tools that I uncovered. Like I found the answers. I found them, there’s no question about it and then started working with others and then teaching them so it was just a miserable.
Ryan
Okay, if I asked you Why Why were you miserable? Not do you have to get super personal here? But did you? What did you find that when you did when you did
Bill
that, it would take too long to explain, you know, all the things I was living. But let me say it this way, what I’ve discovered is, we all have life lessons, there are 38 different life lesson paths, you have life lessons, Ryan, you give me your date of birth, I’ll tell you all about your life lessons. And because you have life lessons, that means we’re here to learn something that means we have huge blind spots that we’re completely numb to, we can’t. This is where why we’re always having difficulties with the physical. So it was constantly being in difficulties with that and stressed out and overwhelmed and worried and fear and, you know, low self-esteem. I mean, I can go on and on and on. The same thing, everybody else deals with yourself included. So everybody can play the facade of Hi, how are you? I’m great. But the truth of the matter is, it’s all about what’s going on in the inner game. And that the only place that you have the opportunity to really make any meaningful difference in your life is understanding that all your power all of your potential sits inside you.
Ryan
Yeah, absolutely. I feel like this year that for me this year, the word is like the inner game because I started doing therapy. Just because I was always curious, about what would it be like to have a therapist talk to every week and I’m loving it. I’m actually exploring just religion and God, I’ve never, never ever had the urge, to look into that. And I don’t know what I’m gonna do with it. But I’m just like, you know, just checking out just an experiment. And
Bill
well, you know, you’re what we call a seeker. Hmm, you know, inside you, there’s more to life than you are experiencing. And you’re now moving in different directions that you feel will give you more awareness and give you more clarity about that. Is that correct?
Ryan
Yeah, I would say you nailed that.
Bill
Yeah. And, and so that’s what I do is, I take people through a process, where I, it’s a very fast process, where I show you exactly who you are, and we see exactly what’s standing in your way and blocking you. And you see, literally, see who you are energetically, then you see what your life lessons are. And with that information, now you’ve got clarity, and you can make choices. And, you know, life is very confusing at best Ryan and Jack’s life is confusing. There’s a lack of clarity. There’s always pain and suffering. And there’s work that describes life. Now, there’s another side of life where none of that exists. And people go to church to seek this. They go to church, for the spiritual, religious aspect the aspect of God, which of course, is talked about and there’s a lot of Print. But who knows, right? Because there are a lot of different religions. But anyway, they’re after this non-physical spiritual faith piece. And the fact of the matter is, you have that energy with you all the time, we’re part of the universe. And when you understand energy, and you understand how it works, this is what I teach people, your life changes instantly.
Ryan
I want to give my audience, some tips for I know this. Of course, it’s going to depend, and this can be a two-hour conversation, but I want to give my audience some tips, some general tips on finding their purpose, but I want to go I want to change topics for one second, I want to look at your morning routine. How do you start your days,
Bill
you know, in silence and silence and contemplation, it’s pretty much how I spend my whole day. It’s almost like a meditation for me because you learn, as I’ve learned to become more and more into the present moment, I’m more active in life. So you know, I do reading a little bit of journaling and meditating. But when you understand the non-physical part of life, now all you’re looking at is vibration. You see, you want some tips for the audience. Here’s one right here. Okay. Purpose. A tip. Did you want a couple of tips? Yeah, yeah, let’s
Ryan
do it. Let’s go there. So someone wants to find their purpose, though. They feel like they have no purpose. What are some first steps I can take?
Bill
The first thing you have to look at is how you’re living your life. And we have two choices for the way that we live our life. One of the choices is the way we’re living now the physical with our minds and our ego, which will only protect us and only create fear. Or you can look at life from your heart’s side, which will only be love because there are only two emotions, love, and fear. That’s it. There are no others. Everything stems from those two. And you can’t have an emotion without a story. And just look at the story that you’re writing for yourself. Now, Ryan, right now, you’re a perfect example. You’re writing a new story. You’ve just told me about two new things you’re doing to go explore and change your story. Is that correct? Yeah, I would say that’s correct. Yeah. And how is the exploration been so far?
Ryan
I’m new to both. But it’s, it feels exciting, the best word and fun and like, yeah, sure, I guess the reward
Bill
rewarding. Yeah, and adventure. Exactly. And you see, that’s what life is. Okay. Now, I started that 30 years ago, I’ve been researching it. Imagine that Ryan has been for 30 years now. And this is how I’ve come up with everything that I teach people, the fastest path, your life purpose, period because you’ve got to understand that everything in the physical world is an illusion. It’s not true. It’s what you see in the physical world is a projection of your past experiences. So everybody’s seeing different things. There’s only one common ground that all human beings have, there’s only one. And that’s energy. That’s how we feel like you, and I can connect when we talk about sadness. The story behind it isn’t going to be the same, but we understand the sadness
Ryan
through feeding your energy, do you exercise the foods you eat? Like what do you do the feed to feed your energy?
Bill
You know what? You don’t need to do any of this to connect with you. Any of that is accurate. You know, eating healthy and being healthy is always good. But that’s all about the physical. It also can affect the non-physical, but the non-physical is about a state of being. It’s not about dueling. It’s about being, and there’s a big difference. Because when you’re being you’re present. When you’re doing, you’re in action in the physical world. Does that make sense?
Ryan
It does. And you’re thinking, making me think I’m just I’m, I’m trying to get better at being present too. And it’s definitely, definitely working as I work on it more. Now, what about you like in terms of being present? Are there any strategies you rely on? Or is it literally just raising the awareness of being present and then just keep on putting in the rack? Well,
Bill
the simplest way to do it is you detach from everything. It doesn’t mean you don’t care about them, that you detach. So right here, right now, I’m with you. Period, end of the conversation, not thinking about other interviews, not thinking about clients, not thinking about other meetings, not thinking about my personal life, my children, my grandchildren, you know, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. I’m here I’m with you in the present moment to be a service for the benefit of all involved. That’s it, period. And as one learns to do that, you have to look at the interruptions and disruptions in your life. And every interruption and disruption is going to come in the physical world. You’re not going to get it in the non-physical world. It isn’t the non-physical world, there’s only a vibration.
Ryan
Does this work that you that you’ve done on yourself? Does it influence how you handle conflict and challenges? Maybe life? Maybe in business? There’s
Bill
no such thing. There’s no such thing as conflict anymore. What do you mean? Would it be impossible to get in conflict with me? It’s impossible. That’s awesome. Yeah, you have? Yeah. Because when you’re in conflict, you’re in protection, and you’re in fear. You’re in protecting, so you’re defending something. Otherwise, there’s no reason for conflict. Yeah,
Ryan
that’s, that’s a good point.
Bill
So if right now if you told me you say, Well, this is, I hear what you’re saying, Bill, but I think this is all BS. You know what I would say, I’ve been great. You, this is your choice. Okay. However, I also tell you, I know the quality of life you’ll live when you’re not understanding this, because it only leads to pain and suffering.
Ryan
So what does it typically I don’t usually ask this question, but I think my audience has, you know, they’ve had about Rebecca Holman, since they’ve, they’ve gotten to know you a little bit. One thing that they don’t know is that you live in an RV traveling the world, which I think is awesome. I told you about the road trips that me and my family do every year, and I’m obsessed with it. So that’s like, your your life is like one big road trip sounds like what is um, when did you start doing that? And like, just give us a sneak peek? Like what does a typical day look like for you? As a business? Coach?
Bill
Well, it’s pretty, you know, it’s pretty chilled. I travel across the country each year, I’m three and a half years now full time living in the RV. But my days are pretty quiet. I have an office set up in the RV, and I’m actually very quite busy. And I love it, because I’m helping people really, really change their lives. But I moved from place to place like I’m leaving. I’m in near Riverside, California now headed for Las Vegas in two weeks. I’ll be there. Two weeks leave there. And I’m going to Albuquerque for a week and leaving Albuquerque and then going to Oklahoma City for a week. So yeah.
Ryan
Yeah. Do you visit clients when you’re traveling? No, it’s,
Bill
it’s, it takes too much time. You can’t you can’t do things in person anymore. You know, with the being able to work virtually, like you and I are right now is so much faster. Right?
Ryan
Isn’t it? I think back to like, for remote work and stuff. And like when clients would want to, like a sales call in their office and, or, you know, it just makes everything takes like two hours versus like a 30 minute meeting on Zoom. And so I find myself like when client wants to meet in person that I mentioned, admit this, but I just like it feels like Ah, really, I get the face to face is important. But I just like, I don’t know, what we’re gonna face to
Bill
face is is actually very important. But check this out. Okay. You have just described the difference in the way that you live life and the way I live life. Speaking about the old way, the way you spoke to clients, okay, how much time that took, how intensive it was, on and on. And then moving over into get ready for this. The non physical, we’re in the non physical right now. We’re communicating through a vibration, we have just reduced the interruptions, disruptions and time consumption by by 99%. Right? Yeah, that’s the difference between living in the physical or living life and living it from the non physical Ryan. I live over on this side where anything’s possible. Everything else is a disruption. And there’s people that are out there. Everybody’s just in survival. They’re running around, making decisions with a blindfold on making decisions based on who they aren’t. And that’s a fact. If anybody doubts me, go to speak to bill.com speak to build.com Get on my calendar for 20 minute clarity session and I’ll show you I’ve been like, that’s the nature of life. I’ve been doing this a long time. That the work I do with people Ryan, I give a 100% money back success guarantee for my coaching. That’s excellent. What this what does that mean to you? When I say that
Ryan
means results or you don’t pay? You get all
Bill
your money back? Yes. No questions asked. That’s how powerful the guideposts are that I use. No one’s ever asked for their money back by the way in 15. And you know why I do that? I’m going to be very and I would give a person their money back in a heartbeat. I have no problem with that. The real reason I do it is just in case Somebody gets by my screen filter. And they really aren’t qualified to do the work. Right? Because if they aren’t in a position where they can really do it, they can’t, like, I can’t take their money, I can’t work with them. Because it really is just somebody that’s in any resistance. And they just, you know, like, you’re hungry for answers, right? Like, you’re the ideal person to work with me, because I’ve got all the answers. And the minute I start feeding them to you, you’re just like, turn on the firehose bill. Come on, let me have it all, you know, right, you know, literally. But that’s how powerful it is. But it’s amazing. Everything I teach Ryan is right here already. You have it all. You just don’t know what it is. And you just don’t know how to activate it. It’s literally that’s the truth.
Ryan
You don’t know You don’t know? Well, this was a fascinating conversation bill.
Bill
And it’s all free. Ever. All the resources I teach are free to anybody anywhere in the world. regardless of geography, race, color, creed, religion. They’re all free. Does that sound crazy?
Ryan
Does so you shared your website speed to build.com? We’ll link that up in the show notes.
Bill
Below my actual website is true life purpose. now.com true life purpose, man. DICOM. Okay, so I have a free book. If clarity has no story is the name of the book, it’s the shamans guide to mastering the law of attraction. And they can the audience can go to my free book, my free book.me my free book.me and download it.
Ryan
Okay, so close us out with, with through your personal experiences thus far, close this out. This has been a fascinating conversation. I’m curious to see what you say about this closest out with what your opinion of the meaning of life as
Bill
well, the meaning of life is really simple. Everything we do in life, Ryan, everything we do in life are lessons to heal our soul. There’s absolutely no question about it. And we’re just here to be of service. That’s it, we’re here we have a very unique purpose. Everyone has a very unique life purpose. And we’re, we’re here to serve people with that purpose. And if you’re not, then you’re going to be miserable. No question about it. So just notice how you feel. And notice, you know, you can feel the difference. When you’re stepping towards what I call your soul, you’re either stepping towards your soul or you’re stepping away from it. And everybody knows the difference in that. So it’s just all there for the taking little open mindedness and digging around is it’s amazing. What you’ll find and the information is phenomenal is just phenomenal. You can just learn so much about yourself in life that it makes life simpler. Excellent. The purpose of some sort, as you are finding out now, Ryan.
Ryan
Yeah. This was great. Bill. We went deep. I really appreciate the conversation. It was really interesting. We got your website. Appreciate everything you shared. Have a great day.
Bill
Great, thank you.
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